This post is about an important sexual health topic; men who cannot have and maintain good erections and therefore are unable to have strong satisfying orgasms.
A sexual health problem caused by age, stress, and common medications, the inability of men to have satisfying orgasms damages physical and psychological health. It can be truly devastating to a man’s morale and sense of worth and well being. But there is a solution, a way to self-treat this problem. We just learned more about the problem and it’s solution here at EZ Playtime Boutique recently, and we wanted to talk about it.
The solution is a specific design of masturbation aid. It is a hand pump driven suction and compression sex toy called The Perfect Stroke Vagina Stroker
The Perfect Stroke with Vagina Stroker Sleeve and Pump Suction Action Bottle.
The Amazingly simple yet profoundly effective Perfect Stroke! this toy is more than just one of the best masturbation sleeve sex toys ever designed – although it is that, this thing can use it’s pump and suck bottle action to literally suck your cock like a college girl in love.
The revolutionary new technology and design of the Perfect Stroker Vagina can skillfully suck a flaccid penis into its snapper pussy action and suck and squeeze and work that soft cock to a powerful normal orgasm each and every time!
“This new technology allows men to start with a hard or flaccid penis. There’s no need to ‘get ready’ or prime first, as the vacuum suction sucks and strokes, actually pulling the penis in, stroking it and repeating this action with an extremely life-life feeling. Whether you choose the oral, vaginal or anal entry designs, the revolutionary technology delivers a full body orgasm, hard or soft! This unique technology allows men to increase their sexual stamina with repeated use.”
- Sucks and strokes flaccid and erect penises
- Perfect for erectile dysfuntion
- Patented Accumulation Technology ™
- Ejaculate flaccid or erect
- Custom Tapered Stroker
- Discreet tin carrying case
- Pleasure bumps and ridges for added sensation
Here’s the story of how this topic came to our attention.
First, a bit of editorial commentary about those who are not seen, and sexuality which is not seen, in our way of life.
Our society has a tendency to overemphasize “beautiful sex”. Perfect people with flawless young bodies tirelessly and effortlessly engaging in sexual acrobatics. The woman is always wet and the man is always hard, their bodies could model underwear for Vanity Fair, and their orgasms are multiple, always.
Strange. That isn’t what real life sex is like. Why do we glamorize what is uncommon, and make what we actually do something rarely talked about? Hopefully, as we add more generations to the sexual revolution that started in the 1900’s, we will stop letting movies, TV, and Advertising tell us that our imperfect and not always beautiful, but almost always pretty damn hot, regular sex should be covered over because it’s not as pretty as fake movie sex.
Hey, let’s hope so!
Two male customers. One late sixties, one middle-aged. They pointed out a particular toy hanging on the wall, the Perfect Stroke. And said, “You know, that thing is pretty amazing.”
Among the types of people who are not much seen in our societies popular stories of sexual people and good sex lives, one important demographic is men who cannot get an erection even with ED meds, and therefore cannot have satisfying orgasms. We met and listened to a couple of these in the past few weeks.
Recently two unconnected male customers to the EZ Playtime Boutique brick-and-mortar sex toy store independently said the same thing to members of our staff. We thought it was really interesting and pretty important, and we wanted to talk about it with you.
Two male customers. One older, one middle aged. They pointed out a particular toy hanging on the wall. And said, “You know, that thing is pretty amazing. I don’t get hard, even with the pills. Having a good strong orgasm was very rare for me, and that is really frustrating. You want to come, but you can’t. Or if you do, the semen doesn’t spurt, it dribbles. The more tyiyu try, the softer you get. And you know that good orgasms woudl be good for you, good for your health, good for your spirit, good for you mentally and physically. But it;s just not happening. makes you feel like crap, you know?”
“Then I heard about that thing, the Perfect Stroke. It makes a big deal out of claiming that it can make soft penises have full orgasms, quick and easy. It says this on the box, that it is designed to do this, give guys that can’t easily get hard a way to cum.”
“Well, I didn’t really believe it. Figured it was hype.”
.”But, it is absolutely true. that thing is amazing. It is the best money I ever spent. If anybody asks, you tell ’em it’s true. It really does, it get’s it done. They should try it.”
To give you a bit of the background, both had medical problems. One had diabetes and heart problems, and one had high blood pressure, had had a few heart attacks, and was on medications that he said made it dangerous to take Viagra and other ED meds, and made an erection something that hadn’t happened for several years. But both were still guys, men, you know, and they wanted to be able to jerk off and have an orgasm, they felt that burning need for it, but it was very difficult.
there are more men out there with a similar kind of problem than you might think. we see them, managing a sex toy and sex aids store. Our way of life is stressed to the max, and Big Pharma and doctors prescribe pills for everything, and those pills have side effects. Anti-depression medications are notoriously hard on erections, as are a number of other common medications. And high blood pressure, insulin resistance,m type 2 diabetes, heart problems, inflammatory and immune diseases, and many more common afflictions of working and professional men all can make it much more problematic to get and keep an erection.
Our society tries to ignore the numbers of men with combined erection and ejaculation and orgasm problems, but the dramatic popularity of erection pills and medications and Erectile Dysfunction meds alone tells us something about the large numbers of men who face this issue of more difficult erections and difficult to reach orgasms and ejaculations.
To get a sense of its psychological and social impact, this article from the AARP. It says:
“Aging. “As men age, they notice that their penis needs more stimulation to trigger ejaculation,” says sex therapist Dr. Dennis Sugrue. “This is normal, but often disconcerting.” Aging also weakens the pelvic floor muscles, whose contractions trigger an ejaculation. When these muscles weaken, semen dribbles out and orgasms may provide little pleasure.
Medical conditions. Neurological conditions (diabetes, paraplegia, multiple sclerosis) might damage the nerves that control orgasm. Surgery for benign prostate enlargement has no effect on orgasm, but it eliminates ejaculation.
Drugs. Antidepressants are notorious for impairing sexual performance. Alcohol is most associated with erectile dysfunction, but in some men, it causes orgasm problems. Other drugs may also contribute, such as pain relievers (Aleve, Naprosyn), anti-anxiety (Xanax, Valium), and numerous blood pressure and psychiatric medications, among others.
Stress. Sex therapists say that several emotional stressors may be associated with the problem: anger at one’s lover, fear of pregnancy or sexual infections, or fundamentalist upbringing. “I’ve seen ejaculatory problems linked to strict Catholic, Protestant and Jewish upbringing,” Weston says. “It’s not the religion. It’s the fundamentalism.”
You can read the rest of that article here.
A lot of men just kind of give up the idea that they are sexual. They stop allowing themselves to feel like men, like male beings with cocks and balls and the desire to use them, and the need to come regularly.
Giving up like that is not a good thing. Regular orgasms are healthy for a man. They reduce the likelihood of prostate cancer and prostate problems by a significant percentage. they are good for the heart, blood vessels, the lymphatic system, and the immune system.
To give a few among hundreds of studies showing the health benefits of orgasms and of keeping up an active sexuality: “… a Welsh longitudinal study of 914 men aged 45–59 recruited between 1979 and 1983 finds that men with more frequent sexual intercourse tend to have lower risks of experiencing ischemic stroke and coronary heart disease events during the twenty-year follow up. Another study based on the same Welsh dataset finds that men who experience more orgasms have lower risks of dying from coronary heart disease ” From “Is Sex Good for Your Health? A National Study on Partnered Sexuality and Cardiovascular Risk Among Older Men and Women, a US National Institute of Health study whose summary can be found at https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5052677/
BUT MEN DON’T HAVE TO GIVE UP!
The PERFECT STROKE Masturbation Aid can bring back regular satisfying orgasms for men who can’t get hard. It really can. And it can do it for a very reasonable price.
We will continue this post in a few days.